Help yourself before you help others! That’s a great phrase to repeat to yourself in situations where you feel burdened to help others.
A lot of the time we think to be a better person you have to be nice to everyone 24/7. However, in reality, that can slowly make you feel less like yourself to the point where you become very mentally challenged and tired.
Being nice is important of course, but staying true to yourself is just as important. Don’t let others take advantage of your generosity! Never feel guilty for trying to express your true feelings to others even if it may upset them. Know your self-worth and be true to yourself!
The more you know yourself the better you can help others while still helping yourself. As always remember that you are understood and loved!
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Watch my videos on YouTube about the “Good girl/boy syndrome”. I spoke about this topic in detail in multiple videos. Here is a link: “Elena Semenek – Stop being nice“